Live YOUR version of a Billiant, Bold, Beautifully empowered life!

Live YOUR version of a Billiant, Bold, Beautifully empowered life!

A woman with red hair smiling, showing a tattoo on her left arm that reads 'BRILLIANT, BOLD, BEAUTIFULLY EMPOWERED LIFE' and symbols. She is wearing a white t-shirt with pink text.

Words to live by

Instead of picking a word for the 2015 new year, I picked three I wanted to identify my life.

Those words were my first mantra.

A woman with unchecked “daddy-issues” which resulted in chronic people pleasing married a (later)diagnosed narcissist. This did not bode well for her self-worth. He cheated 5 times, that she knew of, in 8 years. He manipulated and used those trusty gaslight techniques to make a once optimistic and positive person a shell. 10 weeks into her second pregnancy and a master degree program, she discovered he was cheating again. She had a moment of, oh F&*K no, and left with her daughter.

It wasn’t until after she had her son that she realized she needed to fix HER if she wanted to be the best example she could for her kids…and change her life.

A woman with red hair holding a colorful mug with motivational and curse words, surrounded by decorative illustrations and positive affirmations.
A spiral-bound notebook held in a person's hand, featuring motivational quotes and phrases in black handwriting on colorful sticky notes. The notes include phrases like 'Manifest that SHIT,' 'Trust my every damn move,' 'Follow your soul,' and 'You got bad bitch energy,' with small star and sparkle illustrations.
Close-up of a hand holding a silver token with text on it, with framed pictures on the wall in the background.

Visual Things

For some, vision boards are their thing. I prefer to have little things all around my house that I use or decorate with that remind me to go kick a little extra butt today.

This mug and the hug coin below were gifts from a friend and two of the best things. The coin lives on my desk above my keyboard while the mug is in frequent circulation.

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“If they ain’t paying your bills, Pay them B!1che$ no mind!”

RuPaul

As a recovering people pleaser, it has been one of the most difficult mental shifts ever!

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feed the mind

My go-to books

Book cover titled 'Daring Greatly' by Brené Brown, featuring a multicolored vertical text design, gold badge indicating over 2 million copies sold, and a subtitle about transforming vulnerability to live and lead with courage.
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Beat fear of failure

Book cover of "Braving the Wilderness" by Brené Brown, featuring a light blue background and silhouettes of pine trees at the bottom.
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Self-worth & love

Cover of the book "Girl, Stop Apologizing" by Rachel Hollis, featuring a woman with long, wavy, reddish-blonde hair, wearing a red sweater, standing against a light teal background.
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Owning your true self.

Cover of a book titled 'You are a Badass' by Jen Sincero with a yellow background, black, blue, and orange text, and a blue starburst noting a special 10th anniversary edition.
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Dry witted, beat fear

Disney Meets Inspiration

Book cover titled "Women of Walt Disney Imagineering," featuring images of drawing tools and artwork, with a focus on women reflecting on their careers in theme park design.
Book cover titled 'One Little Spark! Mickey's Ten Commandments and The Road to Imagineering' featuring an image of Cinderella's Castle at Disney theme park illuminated at night, with background text of various inspirational and educational phrases in black.

I LOVE this! Hearing the trials, discoveries, and personal accounts from the first female imagineers was beyond inspiring!

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This was a fun history meets “everyone has value kind of story that left
me encouraged and fired up.

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My Stories & Motivation

I believe in connection through storytelling. We all have similar experiences in life that although us to connect with others but it is our unique twists and turns which enables us to learn from one another.

There are so many people online influencing us each with their own priorities. I am here to connect with humans in the hopes that I can influence you to be the best version of yourself and bring out the part of you that might be hiding.

I talk about daddy issues, narcissistic abuse, learning self-awareness and changing mindsets to allow us to live our versions of a brilliant, bold, beautifully empowered life.

I am often in theme parks sharing what MY version of what this like looks like.

A scene from the Star Wars theme park featuring a spaceship and mountainous rock formations under a blue sky with clouds, overlaid with a quote about focus and reality by Qui-Gon Jinn.